Comments on: EQUALITY – Wasting No Time – Benefits for Gay Military Spouses https://www.honeybadgerbrigade.com/2012/06/29/equality-wasting-no-time-benefits-for-gay-military-spouses/ Nerds bite back! Thu, 23 Oct 2014 18:18:21 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 By: Ginkgo https://www.honeybadgerbrigade.com/2012/06/29/equality-wasting-no-time-benefits-for-gay-military-spouses/#comment-921 Tue, 03 Jul 2012 00:42:29 +0000 http://www.genderratic.com/?p=1648#comment-921 wudang, interesting link. hat usually gets dismissed as “Army wife, toughest job in the world.” In a way it’s valid, since it is a particularly stressful kind of life. The way it was when my wofe divocrced me was that she was entitled to the retirement that had accrued while we were married, not half of the entire amount. She made a point of not making any claim on that, mainly because she’s just like that, but also because she had her won career and her own retirement and didn’t want to feel beholden perhaps. But she was entitled to the three years or so of it she had coming to her.

]]> By: wudang https://www.honeybadgerbrigade.com/2012/06/29/equality-wasting-no-time-benefits-for-gay-military-spouses/#comment-920 Mon, 02 Jul 2012 23:59:08 +0000 http://www.genderratic.com/?p=1648#comment-920 Because of VERY lucrative benefits for the spouse of someone in the army even after divorce, and especially after ten years or so of marriage, US army benefits apparently create some rather dysfunctional relationship patterns. Dannyfrom504 has some stuff to say about that:

http://dannyfrom504.wordpress.com/2012/03/02/danny-gets-his-first-marriage-warning/

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